Respect, the only 1 thing needed!
Respect
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Nearly anything will earn you
respect in the eyes of someone. But only certain things will earn you respect
in the eyes of those who are respected. It is that simple.
Nothing comes closer to one thing for sure- 'Respect.'
Respect for oneself, as well as respect for others, are equally important in
their own little ways. However, they cannot be compared with one another.
Respect is something that many people would do many things
just to get it. Some would die for it. Some would endure endless pain and
suffering if this will eventually make others respect them.
For me, respect means that you listen to someone’s ideas, follow
rules that have been established as well as know when to help someone or ask
them if they need help.
To respect someone is not to assume that they are invincible,
because that is idol worship. Instead, it means to be their friend if they need
it, to be able to leave petty disagreements in the past, to follow their wishes
if you have prayed and know it is in their best interest, due to knowledge
gained from God. That kind of respect is what is important to me.
Respect that one received for injuring oneself or breaking a
rule is fake, faulty, and will not stand the test of time. True respect is like
true love. It is unconditional. It is timeless. Just as true love can never be
taken away, respecting someone is always there once established. Trust can be
demolished, so can hate, and anger, and envy, and all other bad or good things
in this world, but not love and respect. Love is God, and he will never be
gone.
People respect each other out of love. And once you truly
respect someone or something, it cannot be taken away. That may be hard to
grasp because usually respect and trust go hand in hand, and I have already
said that trust can be demolished. However, respect is not the same as trust.
Genuine respect is an attitude. It is a state in which you do not defile anyone
or anything for your sake. True and real respect is selfless because you give a
part of yourself to respect. This, in turn, will become a real reward to you if
you choose to respect it. This is the kind of respect that is important to me.
Without it, I will never truly feel all right or like myself, because I know I
have that kind of respect. I earn it by being as respectful as I can, and
anyone who will not respect me for that is not someone whose respect I am
longing for. I will only be respectful to earn respect, as that is all I must
do.
Ending with this quote-
"Treat people the way you want to be treated. Talk to people the way you want to be talked to. Respect is Earned, Not given." - Hussein Nishah.
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well said suryansh bhan
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DeleteThis is brilliant Suryandh.. Such profoundity. Such clarity. Really nice.
ReplyDelete"For me, respect means that you listen to someone’s ideas, follow rules that have been established as well as know when to help someone or ask them if they need help."
Superb
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